Asher's blog

We took Asher to the pediatrician today. I'll let him tell you about it ... He started his own blog today!

Thanksgiving

For Thanksgiving, we drove to Redding to hang out with Ken's parents, then down to Sacramento to his sister's place (Lori). Here's Asher with his Grandpa Adams.

Couldn't resist this outfit.

Four generations... Ken, Charlene (Ken's mom), Doreen (Ken's grandma), and Asher.

I canNOT get enough of this face!

Friday we drove up to Apple Hill for donuts.

No explanation necessary!

Asher at 2 months

Sabbath

Asher was tired when we got to church today, so here he is, sleeping in the cradle in the nursery. He really liked the rocking; went back to sleep immediately each time he started to wake up.

Ken played music with the praise band today. Here are Dan and Ken, gettin' their worship on.

This is just for reference, so you can see how TALL Asher is getting! He's 8 weeks now; tomorrow is his two-month birthday!

Finally!

I had this idea many years ago, and am so glad someone finally came up with it! I wish I had the know-how to have been the one to get rich from my brilliant idea... Anyway, this is available at Costco.com.

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Grinnin' at Granny

Bathtime Fun...

Asher hated baths early on, but it was because he was suspended on a net out of the water, which allowed him to get cold. We found that he loves his bath if he's submerged and/or floating. So, here he is during today's bath. And no, those are not my hairy legs. :o)


After a bath he's usually so worn out that he just collapses. A clean, sleeping baby. Ahhh.... heaven.

Today we took Brady and mom's two golden retrievers to the dog park to socialize. Asher enjoyed the Bjorn for the first time, mostly because he's strong enough to hold his head up, so I can fold down the headrest flap for him to look around. Yay!

The Morning Shift

I usually take all the baby feedings between 9 p.m. and 6 a.m. (sometimes that's one, sometimes it's three or four!). Then anytime after 5:30 or 6, I wake Ken, who takes over so I can make up the night sleep. This morning, I got up about 8:15 and found this...


Aren't they sweet? Asher had a really good night last night. He went to sleep about 9:30, woke at 1 to eat, back to sleep by 1:45, and slept til 6. Yay! (Aparently, then he slept a bit more!)

I'm a Wrapper

I'm officially a wrapper. A baby-wearer. It's really trendy these days to "wear" your baby, but I'm not as hard-core as most of the granola-heads who are so militant about it. I was really fading from the path after Asher just would not adjust to being carried in the ring sling. But I recently discovered the wrap (thank you Tammy and Christye), and Asher and I are both converted believers! I bought a Moby, but you can easily make your own (it's basically just five yards of material; no buckles or ties or anything).

Ash falls asleep within 60 seconds of strapping on, and will sleep contentedly for three hours while my hands are free to be on the computer or pay bills or whatever. We've started going on walks as a whole family (Ken, me, Asher and Brady), and it's much more convenient than strapping into the carseat and pulling out the stroller.

The only problem with baby-wearing (for us) is that Asher is a little heater; he radiates all the time. So, with the two of us together, it gets really warm. Fortunately, the weather is turning cooler, so we both enjoy the time in the wrap outdoors.

Here we are after our evening walk. The pacifier is on the little blue leash. Oh, and I finally found a hat that stays on this boy's enormous head! It's a knit one I found at Target, and seems to be perfect. He doesn't normally need a hat (note the aforementioned heat radiator), but on our extra cool night walks when it's in the 50s, it's perfect. Yay!


Beyond the wrapping, we're really doing great. We're starting to get into a routine and a schedule of sorts. It's becoming easier to figure out what Asher wants/needs when he cries. And we traded in our glider/ottoman for a La-Z-Boy rocker recliner. So far, it seems to be working better for us, mostly because of the reclining feature. Sometimes the baby doesn't go back to sleep well after his 5-6ish a.m. feeding, but he'll sleep in our arms/lap. So, if he looks like he's not going to settle down in the crib, we just cuddle up with the Boppy pillow in the recliner and sleep an extra couple of hours (a very uncomfortable prospect in the previous non-reclining glider).

Well, I suppose I should head to bed for some shut-eye before the next feeding. Seems like they come so quickly, but he's actually starting to spread out to 3-4 hour intervals during the day and 4-5 hours at night, so that's much better than the 1.5-2 hours it was before!

50s Fun

1-handed so I can't type much, but thought y'all might enjoy these...

Smiling

We finally got Asher's first smiles! (Well, Ken did, anyway.) I knew he was on the verge, because he's been grinning, but he finally smiled big. We didn't get the big one on video, but this clip follows it.



Also, good news on the hearing front. Test results show that Asher's right ear is on the low end of the "normal" range (yay!), and his left "may" have a moderate loss. They want to wait and retest him at three months. Much better news than we were expecting. Praise the Lord!

Now he's been sleeping for the better part of six hours. Makes me nervous about how the night will go. I better wake the boy up and keep him awake for the next four hours!